Have you ever found yourself dwelling on an insult or fixating on your mistakes? Criticisms often have a greater impact than compliments, and bad news frequently draws more attention than good. The reason for this is that negative events have a greater impact on our brains than positive ones. Psychologists refer to this as the negative bias (also called the negativity bias), and it can have a powerful effect on your behaviour, your decisions, and even your relationships. What

Intrusive thoughts can feel like unwelcome guests in our minds. Whether it's during a quiet moment or a busy day, these thoughts can disrupt our peace and drain our energy. Recent studies indicate that these thoughts have been on the rise, particularly during the pandemic, impacting many individuals coping with conditions such as depression, OCD, and anxiety. What if there is a more effective way to handle these intrusive thoughts than merely trying to push them away or chang

Conflict in relationships can feel overwhelming, especially during midlife when many women face unique emotional and life changes. Understanding how to communicate effectively during disagreements is key to maintaining healthy connections. This guide offers practical advice tailored for midlife women to navigate conflict with confidence and clarity. Conflict is a natural part of any relationship, but it often feels more intense during midlife. This period can bring shifts suc

Menopause is a significant transition in a woman’s life. While it can bring hormonal imbalances and various physical and emotional changes, it doesn’t have to be a struggle. In fact, there is a powerful ally that can make this journey easier: endorphins. These natural chemicals improve mood and can significantly alleviate menopause symptoms. Let's explore the connection between endorphins and menopause and learn how harnessing these “feel-good” hormones can lead to a smoother

Stress touches everyone’s life at some point. It can push us to meet deadlines or respond to danger, but when it becomes overwhelming, it harms both our minds and bodies. Understanding what stress really is, how it shows up, and how therapy can help is key to living a calmer, more balanced life. Stress is the body's natural response to challenges or demands. It triggers a rush of hormones that prepare us to act quickly, often called the "fight or flight" response. This reacti

Hypnotherapy, often misunderstood and surrounded by misconceptions, is a gentle, safe, therapeutic modality that can significantly enhance mental well-being. It is important to clarify that hypnotherapy is not about the dramatic depictions commonly found in "morning movies" or exaggerated media; instead, it functions as a powerful therapeutic tool that can help individuals address a wide range of issues, including but not limited to anxiety, depression, CPTSD , addiction,

Healing Emotional Abuse: Professional Insight Hypnotherapy and Psychotherapy for trauma recovery ​ Trauma impacts many individuals, often leaving deep emotional wounds that can be difficult to understand and heal. As a hypnotherapist and psychotherapist, I specialise in trauma and post-traumatic stress, applying evidence-based treatments that have shown impressive outcomes. Many clients experience significant relief after just a few sessions, allowing them to reclaim their li

Comprehending human behavior and mental processes can be likened to piecing together a complex puzzle. Holism provides an intriguing viewpoint by highlighting the importance of viewing individuals as whole entities composed of interconnected components. In contrast to reductionism, which dissects human experiences into their smallest elements, holism emphasises the crucial connections among thoughts, emotions, and behaviors within the larger context of a person's life. The im

Psychoanalytic therapy can be used by those with a specific emotional concern, as well as those who simply want to explore themselves. Psychoanalytic therapy is the cornerstone of psychological treatment, offering deep insight into the unconscious mind and its influence on thoughts and behaviors. When merged with hypnotherapy, this integrative approach can unlock profound healing that lasts.  Understanding why we are the way we are often brings with it a sense of well-being

The human psyche resembles a complex maze, filled with twists and turns that reveal both light and dark sides. Within this intricate landscape lie the shadows of our true selves, often waiting for a moment to surface. As we navigate these pathways, we confront unsettling truths about ourselves and others. These darker aspects can leave us feeling disillusioned. This blog aims to explore these shadows while highlighting the psychological mechanisms that guide us through this c

Understanding human behavior and mental processes can often feel like solving a complex puzzle. Holism offers a unique perspective by emphasising that individuals should be viewed as complete beings made up of interconnected parts. Unlike reductionism, which breaks down human experiences into their smallest pieces, holism emphasises the significance of the relationship among thoughts, emotions, and behaviors within the wider context of an individual's life. The immense comple

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) affects millions of people worldwide, including many in the workforce. This mental health condition involves persistent, unwanted thoughts or urges (obsessions) and repetitive behaviors or mental acts (compulsions) that individuals feel driven to perform. These symptoms can interfere with daily functioning, making workplace challenges particularly difficult to navigate. Understanding how OCD influences work life and learning effective copin

Cognitive distortions or negative or irrational patterns of thinking are ways that our thoughts can become biased. As conscious beings we are always interpreting the world around us, trying to make sense of what is happening. Sometimes our brains take ‘shortcuts’ and generate results that are not completely accurate. Different cognitive short cuts result in different kinds of bias or distortions in our thinking. Sometimes we might jump to the worst possible conclusion, and a